Thursday, December 16, 2010

Continue to climb, Insist (How do I send their kids to Harvard)

 Read to Achieve is a long process, not adhere to the spirit of that success is impossible. Currently the community has undecided, so wake up when the inevitable talent has missed the best time. no great ambition, the world would not have a great ideal. However, if there is no persistence and perseverance, even if there is a great ideal, it is impossible to be great cause.
reading Guizaijianchi. halfway, come to naught; persist in the end, that is victory. This principle is very simple though, almost everyone knows, but really not many people do. Over the years, we have encountered many parents, They start a lot of determination, action is also very active, in order to cultivate children's talent, at all costs, really willing to use family wealth million > because the talent among children is not a simple matter, after all, need to go a long way. Over the past have bided study hard to say, and now even more long, a man from primary to doctoral long to go through two decades years. This rocky road is not easy to go up. predecessors once said, science is no royal road to go, and only afraid of hard work along the steep mountain climb, a chance to reach the luminous summit.
easy as playing all the way into a doctor or a genius, it is self-deceiving nonsense, the world is not so cheap flowers, even though there can only be to advance. But, just as Mr. Wang Donghua said, the advance of flowers end is terrible. children taught in the training process,
not only the children need a lot of hard work, but parents need to make great sacrifices. any opportunistic approach are not lucky enough to win a foothold. So, if there is no strong persistence and perseverance, encountered difficulties and setbacks, it can not stick with it, it will change your mind, like the become a stone, lost the victory and reward of victory.
addition, although the golden times of peace for today's children taught with an excellent opportunity. However, any good thing has its negative side effects. Goods economy itself has a powerful allure, this attractive than the and this tendency will be to infiltrate the unintentional child's heart and mind. Affected children may think: read anyway, is to make money, and study can make only a lot of money, and now if there are other opportunities to make money why do hard to study? harbor such feelings will affect the interest in reading, especially when encountered twists and turns will make the wrong choice. miss any of the talent the best time to wake up until the time for Love stories, youth no.
their child's persistence and perseverance of the specific operations, in addition to his lead by example, we should also pay particular attention to the following points:
an early age to cultivate children's ability to accomplish one thing from start to finish and habits. or a life in learning to do any one thing, we have strict laws that require children up the loose ends to be completed as planned, will never allow halfway. This capability must be from an early age, growing up, the delay becomes a habit, difficult to change the.
complete capabilities and habits is a very important quality. real life, the lack of persistence and perseverance, many people often do things by halves. because there is no strict requirements from small to do anything to a difficulty the habit of not persevered, reaching the height of small to be satisfied. This is the Read to Achieve the taboo, such people never reach a high level.
Second, a sense of responsibility. to do something the child must be accountable . not a responsible thing, there can be persistence and perseverance to complete it. because anyway there is no responsibility, sense of urgency does not exist for him.
Now many parents say their children: good is your own business, and ours, too bad you did not read the future, will suffer. chance to read well, is not only responsible for myself, but also the parents responsibility, but also the social responsibility of the State. This is a man's sense of responsibility from an early age children. driven by the sense of responsibility, the child will have patience and perseverance to complete his studies, will persist in the long road in the end talent.
three, with a great goal, you will have loved the hard work lightly. a great and clear purpose is to generate the fundamental basis of persistence and perseverance. If The purpose of the study is not clear, how persistence and perseverance to endure the pain of decades of ? Therefore, the whole life course must be put to enlarge the image clear, let the children know how to study, in which position in that he knows how to read how important it is for life, especially in today's high-tech society, if not the good book to read the future, not your position.
four, taught children to study in the boot process, do not let the children are forced to feel the initiative to cultivate children everywhere. Anyone would feel compelled to make the child to rebel and cause a terrible vicious cycle. in reverse psychology, driven by the persistence and perseverance not only did not speak to the enthusiasm of even the present will also be suppressed.'re talking about anything, especially when learning something, we must try to guide their children their own conclusions, and then let the children take the initiative to do it.
V. For strong willpower , how many more people with the perseverance close. try to avoid those depressed people. distress and negative attitude of people do not talk. These guys have made many negative reasons, prompting you back, or even put forward the insights to deny your pursuit, you get shaken up, and finally resolve your persistence and perseverance. If you encounter difficulties in twists and turns, you can be down with.
six children adhere to a long-term physical activity or cold baths, it is best to take the lead themselves, seasons throughout the year from the incessant, every day on time, in any excuse to change. This can not only physically, but also to strengthen their will, and develop the will.
VII determined and self-confidence is a prerequisite for persistence and perseverance, lack of ambition or lack of confidence people can have strong persistence and perseverance. These non-intellectual qualities are mutually implicated and mutually reinforcing, must also be concerned about.
U.S. to be selected as the master of fate. Each can always get up and rejoin the battle of life to become the master of fate. taught the children the way, will inevitably have this rough, the kind of twists and turns, but in any case, we have not forgotten the old phrase quote: Stick in the end, is victory.
Finally, we finally touched God, we really won.
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